How’s your Tinder Game?
Remember, whatever your success on Tinder, you can always do better, and for most of the guys out there – they should be doing a hell of a lot better.
Two choices: Get a Tinder date organised for this weekend with fast easy, Tinder tips, or don’t… it’s up to you!
Girls have it easy, how difficult it is for an average looking girl with terrible chat to get laid on Tinder? – very easy!
However an average guy with no chat and no behaviour skills has almost zero chance of getting laid as a result of his Tinder efforts. This is re-coining the phrase “getting lucky”, some guys literally feel lucky that they were accepted, that is not how it should be !
Men need hacks to help bridge the gap.
Girls can rely on looks but men can’t, so there are subtle things about what you say, how you message, your timing and style that make you more attractive, but when you don’t know how then it is a nightmare to get consistent success on Tinder, or anywhere for that matter.
Before I learned some Tinder hacks: My Tinder game was terrible; the girls that I really wanted – I couldn’t even get close to. If I was lucky enough to match with a hot girl, I would send a message and then get nothing back, either literally nothing or get a one-word response and that would be the last word she said to me. I didn’t have a Scooby how to respond – send a message and hope.
The best source of info:
Best Dating Book For Men
Click the link, bookmark it, check it out later.
Stop Wasting So Much Time On Tinder
I wasted so much time with Tinder messages that didn’t go anywhere, swiping for hours, even deleting my profile and starting again so I could try and get more matches. When you just keep trying the same thing you’ll keep getting the same results, just get advice and value your time.
The Best Tinder/Dating crash course
More and more guys are getting clued up on Tinder Tactics and learning how to pick up women. It is time to rise above your competition and get more attractive women.
I am not saying to go and be an expert, but everyone does better after some coaching, you remember the learning curve? ..
The nice thing about tinder is it is easy to get results, you just need to know what to do, I am a results based guy and I go with what works!
Imagine any sport, any skill, if you somebody said “I am just going to let it happen naturally, that is the best way”.
That person is going to come last, or close to last. And guess how many women are with a guy in last place? = 0
Guess what, some quick easy tips and a little practice to see a dramatic difference. It doesn’t matter where you are on the scale, you could be higher, get the girls you really want.
Lets take a look at the best return for time to get the highest conversion rate = Get hotter women in shortest time possible from now.
#1 Tinder Guide for Men
The best return on investment is Tinder Hacks for Tinder, it is specifically for Tinder and as more and more people are using Tinder, you are going to need to get better at it as other guys (your competition) are getting clued up on how to convert on Tinder.
Some people ask me why I don’t have a guide book yet, maybe I will write one, but for now I’ll just point you in the right direction to some awesome existing guides.
Amendment —– since this article was written, TinderHacks is no longer available for some reason, I’ll add a Whisky and Tinder version in the near future —
#2 The Male Attractiveness Playbook
The long term attractive personality and behaviour playbook
David D is the man…!!! I loved every minute of reading his book, I have a great story of putting into practice his techniques. He also has a lot of other awesome guides but the #1 best e-book is called ‘double your dating’ – yes I know the name is cheesy but this book is great.
Here is a personal dating story, not from Tinder but it was still funny for me thinking back.
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Before, dating for me was like playing a board game where I didn’t know the rules, it lost all the time, just like most other men. Then reading about all the Tinder Hacks I started enjoying it become it became a game that I could practice all the time, testing and see more matches and more conversations evolved.
I even enjoyed the failures after that because I would notice after what I did wrong. I am not saying that I get all the girls on Tinder, that is not what I am saying at all. I am average looking but I went from having almost zero dates to setting up 4 in one week, and that just didn’t happen before.
— Back to sucking with women —
It was even worse in person. Approaching women takes balls, and I didn’t really know what to say, I was self conscious and felt I needed to Impress, what magic comment was going to get them interested..? What I didn’t know then was the all important hacks that show women that I am an attractive man with lots to offer.
These hacks exist.. they are easy.. but if you don’t know the hacks then you can’t follow them.
Important Tinder Tips I Wish I learned Sooner
I really wish I got the basics sorted out early, stuff like;
- Learn how to message girls in an attractive way
- How do I respond if they don’t ask me any questions
- Women test men in their messages – learn how to identify a test and how to pass those tests
- Learn what photos not to use for your profile
But there is so much more…
Get Good On Tinder
This is my advice for all men who want to improve, learn the hacks about being good on Tinder, good at dating, and good with women. Of course I don’t want all men to get good, it will be harder for me lol.
I built this site purely because I really enjoy the dating on tinder and I enjoy talking about dating, sure the pickup lines page is purely for fun, those openers don’t actually work and there is a good chance you will get blocked.
Learn to be a Natural
Now I get asked from my friends about Tinder advice, they say I’m just a natural, It only looks that way. Don’t be one of those guys who say “I will let it happen naturally” saying things like “learning about dating psychology is disingenuous” and knowing what to say makes you contrived. That is NOT true, I don’t lie or say I am something I am not, I like the girl, and I learned how to speak to her in such a manner that she finds interesting and attractive.
Authenticity Dating and Tinder
Remember just because you can control how you act, it is still you, it is always you. Think… when you are;
You can feel all of these things, but only the last three make you more attractive. So the most logical solution is to do more of the attractive stuff and less of the unattractive stuff. Does that make you contrived?
No of course not. You have behaved in so many different ways, different conversation styles etc and it is still you! The only difference is that you will soon know which specific ways will attract more women.
David Diangelo’s book is so good..!! I have literally read it 5 times.
This is David D’s book (clicking will take you to his webpage)