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How’s your Tinder Game?

Remember, whatever your success on Tinder, you can always do better, and for most of the guys out there – they should be doing a hell of a lot better.

Two choices: Get a Tinder date organised for this weekend with fast easy, Tinder tips, or don’t… it’s up to you!

Girls have it easy, how difficult it is for an average looking girl with terrible chat to get laid on Tinder? – very easy!

However an average guy with no chat and no behaviour skills has almost zero chance of getting laid as a result of his Tinder efforts. This is re-coining the phrase “getting lucky”, some guys literally feel lucky that they were accepted, that is not how it should be !

Men need hacks to help bridge the gap.

Girls can rely on looks but men can’t, so there are subtle things about what you say, how you message, your timing and style that make you more attractive, but when you don’t know how then it is a nightmare to get consistent success on Tinder, or anywhere for that matter.

Before I learned some Tinder hacks: My Tinder game was terrible; the girls that I really wanted – I couldn’t even get close to. If I was lucky enough to match with a hot girl, I would send a message and then get nothing back, either literally nothing or get a one-word response and that would be the last word she said to me. I didn’t have a Scooby how to respond – send a message and hope.

The best source of info:

Best Dating Book For Men

Best Dating Book For Men

Click the link, bookmark it, check it out later.

Stop Wasting So Much Time On Tinder

I wasted so much time with Tinder messages that didn’t go anywhere, swiping for hours, even deleting my profile and starting again so I could try and get more matches. When you just keep trying the same thing you’ll keep getting the same results, just get advice and value your time.

The Best Tinder/Dating crash course

More and more guys are getting clued up on Tinder Tactics and learning how to pick up women. It is time to rise above your competition and get more attractive women.

I am not saying to go and be an expert, but everyone does better after some coaching, you remember the learning curve? ..

The nice thing about tinder is it is easy to get results, you just need to know what to do, I am a results based guy and I go with what works! Graph of getting women tinder

Imagine any sport, any skill, if you somebody said “I am just going to let it happen naturally, that is the best way”.

That person is going to come last, or close to last. And guess how many women are with a guy in last place? = 0

Guess what, some quick easy tips and a little practice to see a dramatic difference. It doesn’t matter where you are on the scale, you could be higher, get the girls you really want.

Lets take a look at the best return for time to get the highest conversion rate = Get hotter women in shortest time possible from now.

#1 Tinder Guide for Men

The best return on investment is Tinder Hacks for Tinder, it is specifically for Tinder and as more and more people are using Tinder, you are going to need to get better at it as other guys (your competition) are getting clued up on how to convert on Tinder.

Some people ask me why I don’t have a guide book yet, maybe I will write one, but for now I’ll just point you in the right direction to some awesome existing guides.

Amendment —– since this article was written, TinderHacks is no longer available for some reason, I’ll add a Whisky and Tinder version in the near future — 

#2 The Male Attractiveness Playbook

The long term attractive personality and behaviour playbook

David D is the man…!!!  I loved every minute of reading his book, I have a great story of putting into practice his techniques. He also has a lot of other awesome guides but the #1 best e-book is called ‘double your dating’ – yes I know the name is cheesy but this book is great.

Here is a personal dating story, not from Tinder but it was still funny for me thinking back.

Click the image to check out the story

Before, dating for me was like playing a board game where I didn’t know the rules, it lost all the time, just like most other men. Then reading about all the Tinder Hacks I started enjoying it become it became a game that I could practice all the time, testing and see more matches and more conversations evolved.

I even enjoyed the failures after that because I would notice after what I did wrong. I am not saying that I get all the girls on Tinder, that is not what I am saying at all. I am average looking but I went from having almost zero dates to setting up 4 in one week, and that just didn’t happen before.

— Back to sucking with women —

It was even worse in person. Approaching women takes balls, and I didn’t really know what to say, I was self conscious and felt I needed to Impress, what magic comment was going to get them interested..? What I didn’t know then was the all important hacks that show women that I am an attractive man with lots to offer.

Before and after pic

These hacks exist.. they are easy.. but if you don’t know the hacks then you can’t follow them.

Important Tinder Tips I Wish I learned Sooner

I really wish I got the basics sorted out early, stuff like;

  • Learn how to message girls in an attractive way
  • How do I respond if they don’t ask me any questions
  • Women test men in their messages – learn how to identify a test and how to pass those tests
  • Learn what photos not to use for your profile

But there is so much more…

Get Good On Tinder

This is my advice for all men who want to improve, learn the hacks about being good on Tinder, good at dating, and good with women. Of course I don’t want all men to get good, it will be harder for me lol.

I built this site purely because I really enjoy the dating on tinder and I enjoy talking about dating, sure the pickup lines page is purely for fun, those openers don’t actually work and there is a good chance you will get blocked.

Learn to be a Natural

Now I get asked from my friends about Tinder advice, they say I’m just a natural, It only looks that way. Don’t be one of those guys who say “I will let it happen naturally” saying things like “learning about dating psychology is disingenuous” and knowing what to say makes you contrived. That is NOT true, I don’t lie or say I am something I am not, I like the girl, and I learned how to speak to her in such a manner that she finds interesting and attractive.

Authenticity Dating and Tinder

Remember just because you can control how you act, it is still you, it is always you. Think… when you are;

  • Moody
  • Angry
  • Insecure
  • Happy
  • Confident
  • Funny

You can feel all of these things, but only the last three make you more attractive. So the most logical solution is to do more of the attractive stuff and less of the unattractive stuff. Does that make you contrived?

No of course not. You have behaved in so many different ways, different conversation styles etc and it is still you! The only difference is that you will soon know which specific ways will attract more women.

David Diangelo’s book is so good..!! I have literally read it 5 times.

This is David D’s book (clicking will take you to his webpage)

Best Dating Book For Men
Best Dating Book For Men
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Craigslist Hookups may be thing of the past now that Tinder is dominating the local Hookup scene.

CraigsList Hookup Migration

Before you could go on Craigslist and look up someone nearby and find another person who would like a casual fling, one night stand or ‘friend with benefits’. However Tinder is taking over now there are less and less people on there, tinder is the best platform for this, if you haven’t moved to tinder then you should definitely get on there and have some fun.

There are a lot of users on Tinder but there are many up for hookups, and there are many more people on there that are interested in a one night stand much more than Craigslist. There are so many people  who would not advertise on Craigslist and look for hookups on Tinder for the deniability factor.

Craigslist to Tinder Guide

Set up Tinder for Hookups only

If you are looking for one night stands only with no dates or don’t want to be seen in public then there are a few ways to do this. It is not like craigslist where there is a Hookup section, whatever wording for sex meetup is used there is code that most people recognise.

You may not like the idea of linking to your facebook, they require this to activate your account, dont worry there is a way around this, we have an article Tinder without Facebook.

If you don’t like using a phone to arrange your hookups then there is computer app/extension called Flamite, and you can use that to sync your Tinder account and use it on your computer, it is also better for viewing all photos at the same time.

DTF = Hookup

In Tinder the common phrase is ‘Down to Fuck’ or DTF, you can simply put that down on your profile somewhere, simply match with someone you want to meet and then confirm you want to have sex, you will probably find similar people as on Craigslist, maybe even find the same people on there as Tinder is proximity sensitive. Dont be surprised if potential hookup partners use a fake profile because it will be seen and dismissed by so many people, I suggest that you do the same.

See our Tinder Hookups Guide for an effective strategy.

CraigsList vs Tinder Pros and Cons

Craigslist Hookups

Efficiency – Finding someone for hooking up is much simpler on Craigslist, there is a section for it, and you don’t need to fish though 100s of profiles to find them.

Conversion rate – The people who post on Craigslist hookups pages are easier to plan, they are more likely going to be co-operative, even if it doesn’t always happen that way, conversion rate is definitely higher than on Tinder where you have to do more test to see how serious they are about meeting for quick sex.


Volume – The number of potential Hookup partners is huge, you can search them from your bedroom and arrange the meetup from your smartphone.

Organic Hookups – On tinder you can arrange a one night stand with anyone, it just depends on how good your profile is, you can even afford to mislead this person into thinking that you are better looking than in real life, and becasue of the nature of Secret hook ups people are usually so horny by the time they reach your house that it wont matter anyway.


Use them both, When you are bored of the people on Craigslist and the spammy posts then go on Tinder. Tinder will take more time to arrange but there are more potentials in there to choose from, a lot more…!!

Happy Swiping…!!