Best Self Help Books for Men

Best Books – 5 areas to learn

We all want to be a highly skilled, self developed version of ourselves, and reading these great books will give you the value that you need, to inform, inspire and give you something specific to focus on.

• The Best Book for Money
• Our favorite book about the development of Man
• Best Book for Happiness
• Best Book for Inspiration
• The Best Book for Attracting Women

The following books beautifully cover the main areas in life that deserve mental energy and focus:

To be a great man we all need to understand the value of self confidence, peer respect, financial freedom and the underlying desire for status, the result leads to a life filled with more happiness, sex, passion, and social connections.

Ok here we go…

The Whisky and Tinder Official Best Book for Men

Men put so much time and effort into attracting women, or trying to attract women, it brings so much more pride and happiness when you attract a beautiful woman, men should never overlook the importance this area in their lives.

It brings you so much confidence and value when you don’t ever need to settle, this book  is number 1 on the list because it has the most dramatic improvement.

The name of this next book is really terrible, but it is by far the best read for all men on the subject of attracting to women.

My all time greatest read, I have read it 5 times, love it and love the attitude of the author, he doesn’t write about tricks and scams and putting women down, this book is about elevating yourself and behaving like an attractive man. I am a results based guy and this gives you results.

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Book title: Double your Dating
Author: David Deangelo

It doesn’t matter how good you are with women, you can be better!

There are lots of dating books, pick up lines and pickup artist bulls**t but this guy teaches ‘the attractive personality’, and he teaches it perfectly!

This book teaches men how to be an real Alpha, they way it should be, I am not talking about big tough guy acting men who bully people, I am talking about a guy that everyone wants to know, respects, looks up to and that women instantly respond to.

There is such a big gap in skill required for men and women to get laid, a women with terrible chat and mediocre looks can get laid no problem, but a man with average looks and low conversation skill is basically relying on luck and hope.

This book will transform your success with women, its a must read!

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The Best Book for Men To Understand Money

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Book title: Rich Dad Poor Dad
Author: ROBERT KIYOSAKI

Imagine if you have 2 dads and they are both successful in their chosen professions, smart and respected by their peers, but only one became incredibly rich and the other didn’t. This book shows you the different attitudes and decisions that separated the two.

This is a best selling book for a reason, it highlights perfectly why poor and middle class people almost never become rich, thus explaining what you should do to be rich, it is a true story written in basic English.

The Value from the Book

The biggest value top tip for me was understanding the difference between assets and liabilities written in the most fundamental way:

An asset puts money in your pocket, liabilities are something that takes money out of your pocket.

The rich buy assets
The middle class buy liabilities and think that they are assets
The poor never have assets

This book made me realise was that most people I know talk about their house and their mortgage are so proud to call it an asset, probably because the bank talk about it as an asset.

It is not your asset, it is the asset of the bank. The bank makes money from your house because they loan you the money to buy the house and charge you interest, if you stop paying the loan the house becomes theirs, win win for the bank.

Watch this video by ‘Fight Mediocrity’ literally illustrates the important areas of this great book.

This book is awesome and should be read by every young man, it is so important socially for a man to be good at earning and building wealth, reading this book was better than 6 months of finance class, stop letting poor people teach you how to be rich.

ROBERT KIYOSAKI you are the man, great read!

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Best self help book for happiness

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Book title: The Happiness Project
Author: Gretchen Rubin

This is a great book for rationals who like a practical approach with a strategy, this book is not about horoscopes and wishy-washy ideas it is a pragmatic approach to learning about your own sources of happiness.

Gretchen Rubin is a successful woman with a good career, nice family, nice house and a happy life. And instead of leaving it there, she examines how to be more happy, she starts with the basics; do more of what makes you happy and less of what makes you unhappy.

As you can imagine, there is a lot of self analysis, each month she works on something in particular and assess in a very pragmatic way if it works for her overall happiness, the following month she adds another happiness variable, accumulating as the months roll on.

The interesting thing for me was reading about how sometimes the obvious solution didn’t work due to a knock on effect. We should all do our own happiness project, and take tips from this book.

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Best book for the development of Man

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Book title: Sapiens
Author: Yuval Noah Harari

This book is incredible! It really opens your mind to how we developed as a species and how we have effected the world during the time on this planet. Really interesting stuff and puts you in a good mindset of how things relate to each other. A great book for rational men.

One of my favourite eye openers was reading about how humans evolved from 4 legs to 2; our hips got smaller, thus we started giving birth to children prematurely because they otherwise wouldn’t make it through our narrowing hips.

Having to look after pre-mature children, where normally mammals are born with good physical abilities, we needed to form communities to help nurture a baby through this delicate stage, this lead to a quick development in social skills and co-operation behaviour which as we know is how we become the most dominant species on the planet.

Very cool stuff, Definitely recommend it.

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Book about a Great Man

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Book title: Arnold Schwarzenegger’s biography ‘Total Recall’
Author: Himself

Following my online mentors advice

This is a true story of when I wanted to attract a beautiful girl I met in Bali. It was during the time I first started following a guide from David Diangelo about being the most attractive version of yourself.

This is the link if you want to check it out

The Story

I met Maria while I was staying at was at a surfer hostel in Bali. She was beautiful, she had such pretty face, long brown hair, golden skin and smoking hot surfer body. I wanted her! So did everyone else I imagine.

The Friendly Dinner

The evening I met Maria two other cool guys from the hostel were going for dinner at a basic restaurant nearby, Maria and I were invited. We all walked together, I walked a subtle half step ahead ensuring that my posture was excellent because I knew that having a good posture and a raised chin exudes confidence, gives extra height and displays my shoulders as broad as naturally possible, the extra half step ahead is a subtle indicator of male dominance, a leader, and more visible to Maria(literally in her sight more often).

I was sociable and funny and an effortless way, I gave her equal attention to the guys as I didn’t want to show that I was attracted to her, this was important to me as I knew the four of us would spend the day together tomorrow. If she knew I was attracted to her then she would have all the power to accept me when she pleased, that is not a good power position to be in, I also wanted to continually monitor her interaction with me to determine whether I was attracting her.

We had an enjoyable friendly dinner and went back to the hostel to sleep. (no chat up lines, no in-for-the-kill moves, I just displayed my attractive qualities when I knew she was there to see them, and I didn’t )

The Day Trip

The next day the four of us rode on our motor scooters an hour south to an amazing beach with good surf. I gave Maria a lift on the back of my scooter, I made sure my posture was great because she would have my back and shoulders literally in front of her for an hour, so I want them looking their best.

I walked away from her

Maria and I were talking as we walked to the beach. I walked away from her during a break in conversation to show her that I am not interested in maximizing my time in her company

I did that because if she is attracted to me then she will look for Indicators of Interest (IOI) from me as to whether I am attracted to her, I also knew that walking away from a beautiful girl is uncommon and may suggest that I am not interested in her, that would make her more likely to test my interest in her in order to satisfy her ego, at least on a low level. This would be good for me, because I can observe these tests, each test acts as an IOI from her that she is attracted to me.

(most guys will do anything they can to maximise their time in a hot girls company, and hoping that she will be attracted to them eventually, this is a sign that you value her a lot and she’ll realise she can have you – David D taught me not to do that)

Girls and women think a lot about social interactions and the potential significance of implicit expression or behavior; I had learned this and tried to use it to my benefit. I made sure that I was on top form and was socially entertaining In a laid back manner, I wanted to be fun and entertaining but I didn’t want to look like I needed the acceptance of the group through their attention, smiles or laughter.

I purposefully didn’t look for excitement in their faces as I told a story, and didn’t force eye contact during a punch line to facilitate laughter, this is effective for group laughter but at the expense of looking insecure or needy that you require the social validation of reciprocal laughter. (this displays serious self confidence – super attractive quality)

Throughout the day I monitored my proximity to Maria, ensure that I didn’t stand next to her or talk to her for too long before moving my interest somewhere else, stopping myself from drawing closer to her due to my attraction, simultaneously I monitored if she was positioning herself close to me (an IOI), and if so, how often, sadly for me she wasn’t giving me any strong IOIs, with a girl that is in my social group I like to see many IOIs before I go for a kiss and potentially mess up the social dynamic.

Skinny Dipping

Later that night, we were having a few drinks and telling some sex stories, I told a couple stories that were both funny and entertaining, but the important undertone of the stories implied that I am confident, I have sex with attractive women and I am sexually experienced.

Then the four of us, three guys and one girl went skinny dipping, I was the last out because I wanted her to watch me walk out, everyone else felt like it was embarrassing to walk out and attracted attention to me as I walked out. It was cold, my penis was small with the cold, but I strutted out of the water with a great proud posture and walked slowly and confidently to the group and to my towel – shielding nothing.

This was a great opportunity to display my confidence and how it compared against other men. Still I hadn’t noticed any strong IOIs from Maria, but then I had been actively not analyzing her face because that would have indicated my interest. We were then dressed sitting at a table on the beach drinking another beer with the realization that we would have to find a place to sleep, drink driving for 1 hour at night didn’t seem worth the risk.

I was still puzzled at Maria, because I knew I had been one hell of an attractive man in an illusive and interesting way, she didn’t have a boyfriend and didn’t omit any negative vibes, even our conversations were good. I had to know, I wanted the IOI, I decided to do my own testing and I decided to go a bold move..

We were sitting at the table, the 2 guys on my left and Maria on my right, all looking out at the ocean in comfortable silence, I choose this moment to test for Maria’s reaction.

I said “Maria, I know you want to kiss me”, and I didn’t soften my voice, I said it normal volume, so the other guys heard me say it too, I delivered it in the most confident way possible.

I got nothing from her; she gave me a half glance, a bit of a smile and a short disinterested laugh.

The Accommodation Situation

Maria managed to sweet talk some guys that were staying in a big beach house to let us all stay there. We got to the house and while we were chatting and being social with our hosts I analyzed the sleeping arrangements; there was a big three-person bed and a couch that could sleep two people, just.

I had a decision to make, if I go to the big three-person bed there is a high probability that she would be next to me, and there would be a lot of ‘accidental’ skin contact, but there would be another guy there too, sounded very sexually frustrating to me.

I chose the big couch, that way I have lots of space for a nice sleep(I didn’t care about sleep), If she came to sleep in the couch then that would clarify that she wants me, that would be the IOI I needed. Not long after I lay on the couch she walked past me and went into the other room with the two guys.

The lights go off and I am lying on this couch looking at the ceiling listening to the waves, disappointed, reviewing the day and all my interactions with Maria, what things could I have done better?? (I thought of all the info from David Diangelo) I was the most attractive version of myself, I displayed confidence, I didn’t understand, why was she not attracted to me?…..

Just as I finished that thought she rolled over the back of the couch and literally fell into my arms. David D – you legend..!!

And yes… the sex was awesome!

That was 100% true story, I could re-write all the tips and claim them as my own but I want to give credit to the person that taught me in the first place, the best thing you can do for yourself is buy his E-book – you won’t regret it.

Hope you enjoyed my story, I have many more so come back soon to read my knew ones 🙂