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Craigslist Hookups may be thing of the past now that Tinder is dominating the local Hookup scene.

CraigsList Hookup Migration

Before you could go on Craigslist and look up someone nearby and find another person who would like a casual fling, one night stand or ‘friend with benefits’. However Tinder is taking over now there are less and less people on there, tinder is the best platform for this, if you haven’t moved to tinder then you should definitely get on there and have some fun.

There are a lot of users on Tinder but there are many up for hookups, and there are many more people on there that are interested in a one night stand much more than Craigslist. There are so many people  who would not advertise on Craigslist and look for hookups on Tinder for the deniability factor.

Craigslist to Tinder Guide

Set up Tinder for Hookups only

If you are looking for one night stands only with no dates or don’t want to be seen in public then there are a few ways to do this. It is not like craigslist where there is a Hookup section, whatever wording for sex meetup is used there is code that most people recognise.

You may not like the idea of linking to your facebook, they require this to activate your account, dont worry there is a way around this, we have an article Tinder without Facebook.

If you don’t like using a phone to arrange your hookups then there is computer app/extension called Flamite, and you can use that to sync your Tinder account and use it on your computer, it is also better for viewing all photos at the same time.

DTF = Hookup

In Tinder the common phrase is ‘Down to Fuck’ or DTF, you can simply put that down on your profile somewhere, simply match with someone you want to meet and then confirm you want to have sex, you will probably find similar people as on Craigslist, maybe even find the same people on there as Tinder is proximity sensitive. Dont be surprised if potential hookup partners use a fake profile because it will be seen and dismissed by so many people, I suggest that you do the same.

See our Tinder Hookups Guide for an effective strategy.

CraigsList vs Tinder Pros and Cons

Craigslist Hookups

Efficiency – Finding someone for hooking up is much simpler on Craigslist, there is a section for it, and you don’t need to fish though 100s of profiles to find them.

Conversion rate – The people who post on Craigslist hookups pages are easier to plan, they are more likely going to be co-operative, even if it doesn’t always happen that way, conversion rate is definitely higher than on Tinder where you have to do more test to see how serious they are about meeting for quick sex.


Volume – The number of potential Hookup partners is huge, you can search them from your bedroom and arrange the meetup from your smartphone.

Organic Hookups – On tinder you can arrange a one night stand with anyone, it just depends on how good your profile is, you can even afford to mislead this person into thinking that you are better looking than in real life, and becasue of the nature of Secret hook ups people are usually so horny by the time they reach your house that it wont matter anyway.


Use them both, When you are bored of the people on Craigslist and the spammy posts then go on Tinder. Tinder will take more time to arrange but there are more potentials in there to choose from, a lot more…!!

Happy Swiping…!!



Reddit is a forum giant, it has so many users and as tinder following grew they created a Reddit tinder category on their site.

Reddit – what is it and when did they start?

I should really write a lot for this section, it it is really boring, if you find yourself on this page before I finish it please check out some of our finished pages that are great link Tinder Pick up Lines

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Tinder Super like is the only feature on Tinder where you can communicate with someone before you match. There is another effective feature called tinder Boost and we explain in our article the best time to use Tinder Boost. Anyways one thing at a time lets look at Superlikes and how to use them. 

Make sure you read my article on Tinder hacks the best information to get the most out of your dates

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What is Super Like and How to use it: Every user is given by default 1 Super Like per day, and when you use it on someone they will be influenced in several ways, so what happens?:

  1. Receive a notification of being Super liked
  2. Your profile will be one of the first tinder profiles that they will see that day
  3. Your profile will have a little coloured star to indicate that you Super liked them

How to Super Like someone on Tinder

There are 2 ways:

Swiping up – When you are on the swiping section looking though profiles. swipe directly upward.

Hit the Blue Star – What is the blue star? – this is just the symbol for super like. This button is usually located on the bottom right of the screen, on the right of the ‘Like’ button and is fractionally smaller than the other buttons. If you have selected a profile to look through their Bio or their other pics, the Star button will still be at the bottom of the screen but change to the centre position.Dating Advantage

Is it worth it?

What are the positives and negatives of super liking someone, lets expand on the Pros and Cons:


Your profile is Seen First – or one of the first, this is an obvious positive as there are 50 million people using tinder and in more densely populated areas it may be a long time before your profile appears in front of other users, what position you are in the profile pile is a big factor to your Tinder success.

Make them Feel Special – The person you ‘Super Liked’ then knows that you preferred them over other profiles, this suggests that the attraction you have for them is more genuine and they will feel more special. This also indicates that there will be no conversation rejection if they contact you. Especially useful for Men – there are many men who literally swipe yes to every girl on Tinder and then filter though the matches later, so therefor women like to know if your interest is genuine rather than a blind swipe yes.

Attract more Attention – Your little star on your profile tells them that you have already liked them, it brings more attention to your profile and more time will be given on your profile before swiping.


The Sure thing – I don’t know how familiar you are on attraction phycology, but when there is a ‘sure thing’ or the attraction phase was too easy then you will value that person less, this happens because you feel that the person was willing to be attracting you before you feel there has been enough time to develop a connection or display your attractive qualities. If you didn’t know that, trust me, it is true. So the negative of Super Like is that person knows you like them more than other Tinder profiles, and that you are already super attracted to them before they demonstrated value through messaging.

Limited Super Likes – You only have one per day unless you pay for Tinder Plus, with Tinder Plus you get 5/day. So you should choose wisely, there is a strategy on the effectiveness of Super Liking. It works the same as compliments, the more compliments someone receives, the less it is effective. If you imagine a girl who doesnt get compliments very often is told they look beautiful today, they will feel amazing, however if a super hot woman receives her 50th compliment of the day – she will feel nothing, infact will associate you with the rest of the douchebags that gave her compliments that day. The same goes for men, compliments work better on men because we receive them less from women.


Go and try it out, find out what works for you, try super liking profiles different levels of attractiveness. It will bring more attention to your Tinder Profile but you will still need good photos to back it up. What makes a good profile pic, we are working the article. What to show in the pic, what position, where to look, how much of your body is showing are all big factors, Try the Best Tinder Pick up Lines to cheat the system.

Super Like is effective, especially if your profile has a lot of attractive value, however it is not going to help you with the Superhot Tinder Profiles. So be selective on how you use it.

This sums up Tinder Super Likes. Happy swiping…!!!

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Reddit Tinder is a forum where you can start a discussion on almost anything, it is such a great site, there has been many threads on tinder and below we have picked out the best and funniest Treads, including Tinder Tips all 100% NSFW (not safe for work).

Reddit Tinder Pickup Lines / Clever / Great / Funny
Augustus – Are you a Jedi?

No why – Toller

Augustus – Cause yodalicious.


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Heath – I guess you can call me winter.

Heath – Because you’ll always cum before me.

Well played sir, well played – Autumn

We have compiled all the best and funniest conversation openers on Tinder Pick up Lines click the image below for some lols 🙂

Funny Pick up openers from Reddit Tinder
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NSFW warning! We must issue a warning on these pickup up techniques, these are 100% NSFW, not suitable for work.  So if you are instant messaging between workmates, some of these openers will definitely get you fired.

Reddit Tinder Forum

What I don’t like about Reddit is that you need to click through endlessly to find something interesting. So we can pulled all the best information onto this site.

I don’t want to read endless amounts of conversation threads on Reddit, it can get tiresome, we also found that there are some privacy issues with posting screenshots of Tinder so we decided to re-write all the good Reddit material.

We are making the final touches before releasing the site, so if you are finding your way here already then please stand by for some awesome content from Reddit Tinder, hours and hours of sifting through all the dating stories, funny chats and hookup stories. But to be honest – a lot of embarrassing chats.

The Main Highlights of Reddit Tinder NSFW

  • How to talk to girls
  • best way to start a conversation
  • how to hookup
  • Pickup lines that work – according to Reddit Tinder
  • How Tinder is NSFW
  • Humanitarians of Tinder (yes – people are talking about this stuff) Humanitarians in what way?….
  • hookup stories
  • hookup sites like craigslist – (Yes people used to use Craigslist before Tinder, but it does take some time for people to catch up with dating trends)

For those of  you who don’t know what Reddit Tinder is then click here

We are still preparing our content, until site construction is finished please entertain your self with this video.

Tinder Reddit page coming soon and is NSFW.

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Mens appearance, dress sense, simple clothing choices, skin care, shaving, types of beards that are more attractive, taking care of your hair.

Mens Style for Dating – Optimised

This blog is under construction. Until the blog is published here are some great videos that will be of value.

Style tips – Do’s and Dont’s of wearing suits

Video for tips on wearing suits, this guys is hilarious and has great tips

Hair style Idea – Simple fashionable hair cuts

Avoid Grey Hair and Stop Hair Loss

Notice that these guys all have full hair and no greys, I am not saying silver foxes aren’t sexy but it is much easier to look good if you dye your hair to your childhood color and then use rogaine to stop the hair from falling out. See the videos below.

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The Best Books for men who want to be better at dating. These top books are specifically self help books for men, the authors have picked out awesome pieces of advice and taking a lot of time to highlight the important aspects of their theory.

These are must reads, not just good books but the best and most inspirational books that have influenced me and made me a better person, and definitely improved my dating.

Must Read Books for Men

1) Double your dating by David Deangelo

First up, all men must read this book, this guy is a champion, he just writes his book in an easy to read fashion and doesn’t exploit or trick women, he is all about making himself the best and most attractive man he can be. Lets read the best and most important content in this book:

  1. Understanding women – behavioural phycology of women that most men never pick up on
  2. Understanding what makes a man attractive to women – how to Improve and develop
  3. Understand when a man is unattractive – read what not to do

If you are asking yourself ‘is that it?’, yes that is it. Most men are terrible at these 3 things, they don’t bother to improve themselves in these areas, and most are not interested in self help this why you are going to learn how to read women and be more attractive than the rest of the men out there.

Tinder dating blog under construction.

This blog will contain information on the best books, must reads, good self help books that men should read, for dating business and generally being a boss of of your life.

For now listen to this review. It s great

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Using Tinder with Facebook has its problems; Some people don’t like the privacy aspect, they want all the benefits of dating but without having to show all their common connections. Some don’t like that mutual friends will be shown to your matches, as these FB friends may not give you the endorsements that would like, sometimes it is just better without. Plus none of your friends will know about your best tinder openers.

Or you don’t want mutuals friend knowing that you have been organising a date with your new match.

How to not show dating connections
Facebook mutual friends on Tinder

Whatever the reason it is nice to have a clean slate when meeting your Tinder date for the first time.

Is is possible to use tinder without Facebook?

dating app help stepsCan you use Tinder without Facebook? In short no, however, if it is for privacy issues then there is another solution, without using your own FB account, what you can do is create a new FB account, this is super easy to do, follow these steps:

  1. Create a new FB account
  2. Sign into this new FB account using the FB app on your phone (do this so that you can easily switch between FB accounts if you need to sign into tinder again –  sadly Tinder still logs you out occasionally)
  3. Open Tinder, you will be prompted to ‘sign-in with Facebook’
  4. Tinder is now active and you can upload pics from your phone
  5. Open Facebook app, sign out of your new FB account, sign in again with your normal account – done..!

Previously you could only upload pics your Facebook account but now it has changed and you can upload any from your phone, so you can upload your favourite pics without uploading them to your fake profile first.

Hide your Facebook Friends on Tinder

How to hide your Facebook friends on Tinder: To keep your tinder private and use it without being visible to to your Facebook friends, follow these steps:

  1. Log onto Facebook
  2. Go to settings
  3. Go to app visibility – change to ‘Only Me’. +
  4. (Optional) If you want to be extra sure you can uncheck the friends box to remove access to your friends list.

Pros and cons of hiding your friends

Pros – your match will get to know you from your conversations and dates before you actually meet, instead of them FB messaging a mutual friend for any dirt on you.

Cons – you don’t have any social proof

Read our great post on Tinder Hookup