We all want to be a highly skilled, self developed version of ourselves, and reading these great books will give you the value that you need, to inform, inspire and give you something specific to focus on.
Best Book for Money
Best Book about the development of Man
Best Book for Happiness
Best Book for Inspiration
Best Book for Attracting Women
The following books beautifully cover the main areas in life that deserve mental energy and focus:
To be a great man we all need to understand the value of self confidence, peer respect, financial freedom and the underlying desire for status, the result leads to a life filled with more happiness, sex, passion, and social connections.
Ok here we go…
The Whisky and Tinder Official Best Book for Men
Men put so much time and effort into attracting women, or trying to attract women, it brings so much more pride and happiness when you attract a beautiful woman, men should never overlook the importance this area in their lives.
It brings you so much confidence and value when you don’t ever need to settle, this book is number 1 on the list because it has the most dramatic improvement.
The name of this next book is really terrible, but it is by far the best read for all men on the subject of attracting to women.
My all time greatest read, I have read it 5 times, love it and love the attitude of the author, he doesn’t write about tricks and scams and putting women down, this book is about elevating yourself and behaving like an attractive man. I am a results based guy and this gives you results.
Click the Image to go check out the book
Book title: Double your Dating Author: David Deangelo
It doesn’t matter how good you are with women, you can be better!
There are lots of dating books, pick up lines and pickup artist bulls**t but this guy teaches ‘the attractive personality’, and he teaches it perfectly!
This book teaches men how to be an real Alpha, they way it should be, I am not talking about big tough guy acting men who bully people, I am talking about a guy that everyone wants to know, respects, looks up to and that women instantly respond to.
There is such a big gap in skill required for men and women to get laid, a women with terrible chat and mediocre looks can get laid no problem, but a man with average looks and low conversation skill is basically relying on luck and hope.
This book will transform your success with women, its a must read!
Click the Image to go check out the book
The Best Book for Men To Understand Money
Click the Image to go check out the book
Book title: Rich Dad Poor Dad Author: ROBERT KIYOSAKI
Imagine if you have 2 dads and they are both successful in their chosen professions, smart and respected by their peers, but only one became incredibly rich and the other didn’t. This book shows you the different attitudes and decisions that separated the two.
This is a best selling book for a reason, it highlights perfectly why poor and middle class people almost never become rich, thus explaining what you should do to be rich, it is a true story written in basic English.
The Value from the Book
The biggest value top tip for me was understanding the difference between assets and liabilities written in the most fundamental way:
An asset puts money in your pocket, liabilities are something that takes money out of your pocket.
The rich buy assets The middle class buy liabilities and think that they are assets The poor never have assets
This book made me realise was that most people I know talk about their house and their mortgage are so proud to call it an asset, probably because the bank talk about it as an asset.
It is not your asset, it is the asset of the bank. The bank makes money from your house because they loan you the money to buy the house and charge you interest, if you stop paying the loan the house becomes theirs, win win for the bank.
Watch this video by ‘Fight Mediocrity’ literally illustrates the important areas of this great book.
This book is awesome and should be read by every young man, it is so important socially for a man to be good at earning and building wealth, reading this book was better than 6 months of finance class, stop letting poor people teach you how to be rich.
ROBERT KIYOSAKI you are the man, great read!
Best self help book for happiness
Click the Image to go check out the book
Book title: The Happiness Project Author: Gretchen Rubin
This is a great book for rationals who like a practical approach with a strategy, this book is not about horoscopes and wishy-washy ideas it is a pragmatic approach to learning about your own sources of happiness.
Gretchen Rubin is a successful woman with a good career, nice family, nice house and a happy life. And instead of leaving it there, she examines how to be more happy, she starts with the basics; do more of what makes you happy and less of what makes you unhappy.
As you can imagine, there is a lot of self analysis, each month she works on something in particular and assess in a very pragmatic way if it works for her overall happiness, the following month she adds another happiness variable, accumulating as the months roll on.
The interesting thing for me was reading about how sometimes the obvious solution didn’t work due to a knock on effect. We should all do our own happiness project, and take tips from this book.
Best book for the development of Man
Click the Image to go check out the book
Book title: Sapiens Author: Yuval Noah Harari
This book is incredible, it really opens your mind to how we developed as a species and how we have effected the world during the time on this planet. Really interesting stuff and puts you in a good mindset of how things relate to each other, a great book for rational men.
One of my favourite eye openers was reading about how humans evolved from 4 legs to 2; our hips got smaller, thus we started giving birth to children prematurely because they otherwise wouldn’t make it through our narrowing hips.
Having to look after pre-mature children, where normally mammals are born with good physical abilities, we needed to form communities to help nurture a baby through this delicate stage, this lead to a quick development in social skills and co-operation behaviour which as we know is how we become the most dominant species on the planet.
Very cool stuff, Definitely recommend it.
Book about a Great Man
Click the Image to go check out the book
Book title: Arnold Schwarzenegger’s biography ‘Total Recall’ Author: Himself
That is right, this could be the best self help book of all time, not only did he accomplish so much, his strategy was amazing, did you know he already made his money before the Conan movie?
“Become a world champion body builder, move to America, learn the language, get a leading Hollywood film role despite barely being understood, become one of the greatest Hollywood actors of all time, hold public office and marry a Kennedy”
He didn’t fall into that role by accident, he delayed his film career for years because he waited for that leading role.
How many of us would have given up before that? Most is the answer, in the words of Bill Burr the comedian, how many lifetimes would it take to accomplish what Arnold Schwarzenegger has…
Watch Bill Burr’s standup – not only is he hilarious, he really puts it in perspective how great of a man he is.
What a Champion, everyone should read his book out of respect.
Check out strategy for hooking up on the first date
Remember, whatever your success on Tinder, you can always do better, and for most of the guys out there – they should be doing a hell of a lot better.
Two choices: Get a Tinder date organised for this weekend with sneaky tips, or learn to be attractive forever, thats up to you.
Girls have it easy, how difficult it is for an average looking girl with terrible chat to go out and get laid? – very easy!
However an average guy with no chat and no behaviour skills has almost zero chance of getting laid. This is coining the phrase “getting lucky”, they literally feel lucky that they were accepted, that is not how it should be !
Men need hacks to help bridge the gap.
Girls can rely on looks but men can’t, so there are subtle things about what you say, how you message, your timing and style that make you more attractive, but when you don’t know how then it is a nightmare to get consistent success on Tinder, or anywhere for that matter.
Before: My Tinder game was terrible; the girls that I really wanted – I couldn’t even get close to. If I was lucky enough to match with a hot girl, I would send a message and then get nothing back, either literally nothing or get a one-word response and that would be the last word she said to me. I didn’t have a scooby how to respond – send a message and hope.
The best sources of info are the following:
Tinder Hacks – If you want to get a date or a hookup sorted for this weekend, and you just need some sneaky tips to make it happen.
Double your dating – how to attract women
Click on the Images above to check them out
Stop Wasting So Much Time On Tinder
I wasted so much time with Tinder messages that didn’t go anywhere, swiping for hours, even deleting my profile and starting again so I could try and get more matches.
The Best Tinder/Dating crash course
More and more guys are getting clued up on Tinder Tactics and learning how to pick up women. I am not saying to go and be an expert, but everyone does better after some training, you remember the learning curve?..
Imagine any sport, any skill, if you somebody said “I am just going to let it happen naturally, that is the best way”.
That person is going to come last, or close to last. And guess how many women are with a guy in last place? = 0
Guess what, it doesn’t take much reading and practice to see a dramatic difference. It doesn’t matter where you are on the scale, you could be higher, get the girls you really want.
Lets take a look at the best return for time to get the highest conversion rate = Get hotter women in shortest time possible from now.
#1 Tinder Guide for Men
The best return on investment is Tinder Hacks for Tinder, it is specifically for Tinder and as more and more people are using Tinder, you are going to need to get better at it as other guys (your competition) are getting clued up on how to convert on Tinder.
Tinder Hacks is exactly what it says, and will up your Tinder Game, and it is cheap too.
Click the image to check out the guide
#2 The Male Attractiveness Playbook
The long term attractive personality and behaviour playbook
David D is the man…!!! I loved every minute of reading his book, I have a great story of putting into practice his techniques. He also has a lot of other awesome guides but the #1 best e-book is called ‘double your dating’ – yes I know the name is cheesy but this book is great.
Here is a personal dating story, not from Tinder but it was still funny for me thinking back.
Click the image to check out the story
Before, dating for me was like playing a board game where I didn’t know the rules, it lost all the time, just like most other men. Then reading about all the Tinder Hacks I started enjoying it become it became a game that I could practice all the time, testing and see more matches and more conversations evolved.
I even enjoyed the failures after that because I would notice after what I did wrong. I am not saying that I get all the girls on Tinder, that is not what I am saying at all. I am average looking but I went from having almost zero dates to setting up 4 in one week, and that just didn’t happen before.
— Back to sucking with women —
It was even worse in person.Approaching women takes balls, and I didn’t really know what to say, I was self conscious and felt I needed to Impress, what magic comment was going to get them interested..? What I didn’t know then was the all important hacks that show women that I am an attractive man with lots to offer.
These hacks exist.. they are easy.. but if you don’t know the hacks then you can’t follow them.
Important Tinder Tips I Wish I learned Sooner
I really wish I got the basics sorted out early, stuff like;
Learn how to message girls in an attractive way
How do I respond if they don’t ask me any questions
Women test men in their messages – learn how to identify a test and how to pass those tests
Learn what photos not to use for your profile
But there is so much more…
Get Good On Tinder
This is my advice for all men who want to improve, learn the hacks about being good on Tinder, good at dating, and good with women. Of course I don’t want all men to get good, it will be harder for me lol.
I built this site purely because I really enjoy the dating on tinder and I enjoy talking about dating, sure the pickup lines page is purely for fun, those openers don’t actually work and there is a good chance you will get blocked.
Learn to be a Natural
Now I get asked from my friends about Tinder advice, they say I’m just a natural, It only looks that way. Don’t be one of those guys who say “I will let it happen naturally” saying things like “learning about dating psychology is disingenuous” and knowing what to say makes you contrived. That is NOT true, I don’t lie or say I am something I am not, I like the girl, and I learned how to speak to her in such a manner that she finds interesting and attractive.
Authenticity Dating and Tinder
Remember just because you can control how you act, it is still you, it is always you. Think… when you are;
You can feel all of these things, but only the last three make you more attractive. So the most logical solution is to do more of the attractive stuff and less of the unattractive stuff. Does that make you contrived?
No of course not. You have behaved in so many different ways, different conversation styles etc and it is still you! The only difference is that you will soon know which specific ways will attract more women.
David Diangelo’s book is so good..!! I have literally read it 5 times.
This is David D’s book (clicking will take you to his webpage)
This image of the sexy chick below is a link to check out Tinder Hacks (guys who literally wrote a book on it)
When is the best time to use boost – 7pm on a Thursday
There are a few articles quoting statistics about Tinder usage, what time most people are on Tinder, and the best time for using the boost function. So lets discuss the best boost days and times.
See the below graph from a Huffington post article on the subject, they are telling you that 9pm is the best time for using boost because that is the time that people are on Tinder the most. However I disagree because for me it is between 6:30 and 7:30 is the best boost time and even more specifically on Thursday.
There are a lot of different factors that can effect your boost match results but from my trials and my friends feedback Thursday at 7pm is the best bang for your buck – so to speak 😉
Clicking on the graph will open the huffington post article in a new tab. But better yet, just listen to us!
Tinder Hacks – If you are reading this then you are champions that will improve yourself. I have an article on Tinder Hacks
The Best time for Tinder Boost
Boosting time for Men
Seriously try it, Thursday is the best day for boost, and 6:30pm-7:30pm on Tursday is a magic hour in the week. So lets break down the days:
Mondays girls don’t really care because the weekend is over and if they have a generally busy life they want to date on the weekends and on Monday it is too long away to matter,
Tuesdays – pretty similar
Wednesdays – Things are heating up and girls are looking to book in a date at the weekend (assuming she doesn’t have anything else on).
Thursdays – This is the hot Tinder boost day, girls want to have things planned at the weekend, if they have a spare night they are going to fill it tonight, and Thursday is the day to do it. Girls like to talk about having a date at the weekend when everybody is asking in the office about what peoples plans are for the weekend.
Fridays – is a bit late for Friday night dates but may still get some matches for Saturday dates, but as for Tinder Boosting is it really worth it?… well actually yes, the girls who don’t have plans will be on Tinder to make themselves feel better that they didn’t have a date.
it is a great match to date ratio
Saturday – Again Boost is not going to get you a lot more matches today but the ones you do get are likely to meet up, so if you can organise a date then it is a great ‘match to date ratio’, also bear in mind that they are really keen to get a date and more likely to hook up, for more advise on that read our Tinder Hookup Strategy.
Sunday – Not bad actually for matches, I assume because when people have lots of time off, or are hungover they go on tinder out of boredom. And if you are also on Tinder out of boredom, why not throw a couple dollars for some faster matches and entertain yourself talking to women.
Converting, how to go from first message to first date, read our tinder pick up lines for some great openers until I finish writing the tinder conversation strategy.
Increase the boost’s Effectiveness
It makes such a big difference. Boost increases your exposure, but you want your conversion rate to be good = more matches per profile view. You don’t need to be a selfie king, try getting one of these lights before taking a pic of yourself.
Maybe you feel like a douche at first but you will get over it when you get more dates and your friends don’t know why. These change the light balance on your face and body and make everything look better. Do it!
Women should use boost at 9pm when most men are online, men certainly have less messages, and between messages they are swiping or reading up on Patrick’s Online Income Strategy or lost in a spiral of FB videos.
Micheal – Roses are red, violets are blue, You be the six, I’ll be the nine
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex George – Do you eat ass?
Not my thing – Kalyn
George – Oh well I do
George – What’s your number?
More Funny Tinder Specials
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Joseph – Is the rest of you as pretty as your eyes?
That’s for you to decide – Sarah
Joseph – Yeah I don’t think it is
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Christian – I would drag my balls through 1000 miles of broken glass across the Sahara desert, with Rosie Odonnells queef as my only air supply, just so I could hear you fart though a walkie-talkie
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Jose – Do you have pet insurance?
No – Samantha
Jose – You should get some because I’m gonna destroy your pussy.
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Erick- Is your dad in jail? Cus if I was your dad I’d be in jail
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Christopher – I once chopped down a tree by only using a rule and dental floss
Wow – Christine
Christopher – Yeah it’s one of two things I’m good at
And the other – Christine
Christopher – I’m also great in bed
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Prince – Wow I can’t believe they actually let me use this app from jail!
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Jom – All I’m missing is a little spoon
Too bad I’m a big spoon – Nam
Jom – Snuggle me in your strong protective arms and tell me I’m pretty.
Jom – One day we can tell our grandkids that the only reason they’re around is because I deeply deployed in Nam.
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Jess – Hey there!
Hey. I want to smear you in green paint and spank you like a disobedient avocado. – Jim
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Joey – What does coffee and pussy have in common?
Umm idk what? – Jane
Joey –They both know how to get me up in the morning.
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Tien – Girl you must be rl stine because you give me goosebumps
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Marzial – Want to grab some lunch? We could get some chicken nguyets!
Well, that’s new – Nguyet
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Ashley – Is that Ryan in your picture?
It is, how do you know him? – Shawn
Ashley – He took a shit in my car.
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Todd – You up for 2 minutes of mediocre sex followed by 30 minutes of crying?
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Cassondra – Are you the SAT, Cause I’d do you for 3 hours and 45 minutes with a ten minute break in the middle for snacks.
Best Tinder Pickup Lines / Dirty / Sex Rick –A Persian guy tried to fight me once
Then he’s dumb – Mahtan
Rick – I guess so but I did what I had to do.
Lol what did you do? – Mathan
Rick – Iran.
Best Tinder Pickup Lines Frankie – This is my opening line
Frankie – ——————————–
Very clever wise guy – Elijah.
Best Tinder Pickup Lines Scott – Helena, you’ve got the sweetest smile on Tinder.
Scott – If you’re a vegetable, you’d be a cutecumber.
If you were a person you’d have downs – Helena
Scott – I take that back, if you were a vegetable. I’d pull the plug.
Best Tinder Pickup Lines Natasha – What came first, the chicken or the egg?
If you hung with me you’d prob cum first – Bolt
Best Tinder Pickup Lines Ericka – Are you a beaver because… Damnnnnnnnnnnn
Best Tinder Pickup Lines Anton – How about I take a couple letters off and make you Moan?
How about I add a few letters and make you die? – Morgan
Anton – What letters are you thinking? Six more and you’d have mangled organ.
Best Tinder Pickup Lines Luke – How much of your butthole would you be willing to show me?
I’ll show you my dog’s butthole – Fiona
Best Tinder Pickup Lines Maekell – What would you be called if you were wrapped in baked pastry?
Maekell – An EmpaNada
Go away –Nada
Maekell – Wow that reaction was not impressive at all
Maekell – Nadatall
Best Tinder Pickup Lines Ivan – Where the fuck are you and how did we match 7300 miles away?!
I’m looking for Wilson in the middle of the Pacific Ocean. Just because Tom Hanks left him there doesn’t mean I have to – Genevieve
Best Tinder Pickup Lines Drew – If you were a transformer you’d be a Hot-o-bot and your name would be Optimus Fine.
Best Tinder Pickup Lines Lachie – Did you fall from heaven because let’s have sex.
Best Tinder Pickup Lines Justin – How do you kill a frog?
Justin- You don’t it Kermits suicide
Best Tinder Pick up Lines / Guys Nikko – What’s a smart, attractive, young…. Man like myself doing without your number?
Best Tinder Pickup Lines Andrew – Lets make sex
How high are your results with that tinder line? – Joyce
Andrew – I’ve done the sex in three women from it. One might have been a man.
Best Tinder Pick up Lines Lucas – What weighs more, 60 lbs of feathers or 40 lbs of bricks?
Books? – Yesenia
Lucas – Yep, books
Best Tinder Pickup Lines Hillary – Hey
You’re too cute – Tony
Stop it – Tony
Hillary – Haha well thank you
Can I snapchat you pictures of my dick now?- Tony
Best Tinder Pick up Lines Freddie – Are you just a small town girl living in a lonely world?
Just trying to find emotion yes – Linxi
Freddie – THAT’S NOT HOW THE FUCKING SONG GOES
Best Tinder Pick up Lines Greg – If I sent Special D, would you accept my package?
I refuse to sign for anything that small – Lexi
Best Tinder Pick up Lines Bryle – Hi I just got of prison and my parents changed the locks so I could really use a place to stay
Bryle – You’re cute by the way.
Best Tinder Pick up Lines Kristoph – If your right leg was Christmas, and your left leg was Easter, would you let me come for dinner between the holidays?
I’m Jewish – Alexa
Aimee – If I told you I worked for UPS, would you let me handle your package?
As long as it doesn’t end with a delivery in nine months – Mike
Best Tinder Pickup Lines Aaron – Do you ever look up at the stars and wander about all the amazing things in this world? Like why the letter D is in ‘Fridge’ but not in ‘Refrigerator’?
Lol No I suppose I havent – Mary
Aaron – Well there is no ‘D’ in Mary but I can definitely change that
Want to read my Maria Story. I learned from some dating gurus, I tried it all, some advice sucked, many times it bombed. However the advice of one guy in particular worked really well, no manipulative sneaky stuff either – hate that. Here is the story of one funny time when I was trying to put it into practice – 100% true story.
Hope you enjoyed these awesome Pick up Lines, please share with your friends and feel free to send us some more.
Tinder are bringing pickup lines back in fashion, Pickup lines used to be the most laughed at detestable way of starting conversation with someone. But on Tinder is the ultimate opening line, conversation starting practicing machine.
Here are some Tinder Nightmare pick up lines on the Ellen show
Sure having good pickup lines is useful but you will never get to use them if you don’t get the match in the first place. The number 1 best way to get more matches is improve your profile pics. Here is the best tip for boosting your Tinder Profile.
Get good Pics! – You are judged on your pics not on how attractive you are in person.
Here is a video from Collage Humour, it is a great way to highlight irritating profile pics, make sure you don’t have any of these profile pics, they are the lease successful – except the dog, it actual has better results.
Read my article on Tinder hacks once you get your profile pic sorted
You may hate taking selfies, or hate those muscly fairies that take selfies of themselves in the gym, but when they are having more sex with hot women that you are, who is the fairy now!
Hire a photographer – The best return on investment for online dating.
That tip may sound obvious, but it is a skill in itself to choose the correct pics for your Tinder Profile, don’t think you need to be super buff either. Lets go though the important sub-tips about your profile pics
Tinder Profile Pic Tips
Don’t underestimate the power of a good main profile pic, sometimes girls don’t even check the rest of your photos they will make a decision based on the first one they see, so it’s time to optimise your profile.
Tip 1 – Use ‘Smart Photo’ to find your best profile Pic
Tinder Smart photo is a feature provided by Tinder to allow you to find out what profile photo works best. Smart Photo cycles through all your photos at random to all the girls who view your profile, out of all the girls that swipe yes, it selects the picture combination that gives you the most ‘likes’. This tips things in your favour as normally the pics that you think are great are not what girls find most attractive.
Ok so now you have your best pic as the first photo that girls will see, but is it actually working..
Tip 2 – Be Honest with yourself
Are your photos working? You have followed tip 1, Are you getting matches?
Test: Swipe all the girls you think are hot and want to meet, how many matches are you getting?
Are you matching with girls that you actually want to meet, or are you lowering your standard so that you can at least have some girls to speak to.
How many times can you swipe ‘Yes’ on Tinder in a day? Answer: 100
First aim for 10% – So if you use all your yes swipes you should have 10 matches with hot girls that you are attracted to, if you don’t have that then you definitely need to get some better photos.
Tip 3 – Tinder Photo Day
There are 2 ways you can go here, Kickass profile or half hearted, either way it will be an improvement but I will try to push you towards kickass – obviously.
Half Hearted Result – You may get a new pics that are slightly better than the old one(s), the standard will probably be pretty poor.
Kickass result – Changing your dating life forever, enjoying dating because you will be desired so much more and it will be noticeable as soon as the pics are up.
Half Hearted – You will take some photos in different outfits and maybe even get a friend to hold the camera, you will do this wherever and whenever this is convenient. You’ll take a few pics and choose the best one. You may even take 20 or so selfies to get the best face position and try different smile options.
Plan your environment -you want to look like you have a life, get photos in different and interesting settings
Get in shape – you only need to do Tinder photo day once, get it right and you’ll never need any more pics, so make sure you have the best physique possible and you look great in your clothes, not just a tip for Tinder its a tip for life.
Beard Length – that is right.. beards are cool right now. make sure you have your optimum length.
Get a good photographer – if you don’t take good photos regularly then get someone who does, hire a photographer it is the best return on investment when it comes to online dating.
Plan your ‘image’ – How do you want to look? if you want to look sporty then dress like you are away to a tennis match, do you want to look rich, stand next to an expensive car, wear a nice suit, get a pic on a speedboat wearing the suit.
Lighting, There is certain lighting that make people look better, by getting multiple point lighting with diffusers(makes light less vibrant) you can buy it yourself for about $60-80 and you will always look good, another amazing tip and great return on investment, click on the image to check prices if you are interested.
ROI – Get that perfect pic, taken by a good photographer, with you in great shape, driving a speedboat on a sunny day, wearing a cool suit and a dog on the passenger seat – you will never be short of dates again. I can’t push this tip enough, elevate yourself above everyone else.
Being Genuine – Some people get hung up about being genuine, sure the speedboat example seems ridiculous, but it doesn’t need to represent your life, it only needs a girl to want to match with you, start a conversation and from there you will develop a connection. You can tell her that you did it because you read it on a website WhiskyandTinder and thought it was cool – she would love your honesty, self assurance and you would be 100% genuine. It is all in your head and its all about self confidence.
Tip 4 – Test Again
Now you should have more awesome pics from your Tinder Photo Day. It is time to upload them there is one exception – keep your previous best pic chosen by Tinder ‘smart photo’, the best one from before, so when you do Smart photo again, it will tell you how good your old pic is compared with your new pics.
Profile Pic Statistics
1/3 of new marriages start out from dating apps (USA)
If a girl doesn’t show her arms in her pics – she’s fat
The hookup dating tips below are essential for men and appreciated by women, so lets start by stating the obvious and start having more sex on your tinder dates:
A good story allows girls to have enough detail to cover a potentially slutty image with a blanket of respectability
Guys want to hookup and have sex with hot, sexy attractive women but sadly most men have no idea of how to make that happen, especially on Tinder, if you have ever seen the Tinder messages girls get – its embarrassing for al men.
Girls equally love the excitement of having a sex with a new partner, and are usually willing to have hookups and one night stands with a man who makes them feel good, but girls won’t if it could make them look or feel like a Tinder slut.
BTW – I got most of my dating and pickup phycology from a book called double your dating (embarrassing title but it’s so frick’n awesome)
Click for the book
Check it out when you finish this article
Hookup – The importance of the Story
Most girls have one night stands and hookup with guys from Tinder but they can’t look like a slut doing it. This is so important for you to understand, the key to hookup with a hot girl on the first night is all about creating a good date story. Tinder or non Tinder – this is important.
If a girl tells starts suggesting that she would be up for a one night stand and sounding like a slut, 9 out of 10 times they are just testing you.
‘The key to hookup with a hot girl on the first night is all about creating a good date story’
For girls it is all about the story, of how it happened, girls love this stuff and will chat hours with their friends; what did he say? how did he ask you out? how did you end up at his place? all of this is really important to women and they will tell every last detail to their friends.
When they tell their friends about the sex on first night it can’t make them look like a slut, rather an exciting unexpected ending rather than a dirty Tinder hookup. Giving girls a good story allows them to have enough detail to cover a potentially slutty image with a blanket of respectability.
A girl that has sex with you will want to meet again
This is the reason why men should meet them early, suggest to go to a quiet bar, nice walk to chat visiting several places, this is a great way to help her write the story in her head that it was a classy evening. Your job is to make her feel good and help write the story, all the way to your bedroom.
Hot Girl Mindset
Remember a very attractive woman can have sex or ‘Hookup’ whenever she wants, if she wanted to have some anonymous sex she could organise that in a second, she knows that 9/10 guys would drop everything and take her home if she suggested she wanted to have sex. Tinder for her is like window shopping because she every guy will have swiped yes to her on Tinder.
A hot girl doesn’t put a high value on sex because she can have it whenever she wants. But she will value peer respect, image and status, she will be very aware that other less hot, jealous women would jump at the chance to give her a slut label in an attempt to bring down her value.
I cannot emphasis this enough – Don’t make your hookup sound like a one night stand, when a girl tells her friends the story, or ask for their advice, you need to sound like a great guy with a ‘potential’ long term even if all she wanted was to get laid.
Show any girl this post and they will agree with it, this is what they want, they want to meet a guy have great sex and they want to keep their dignity doing it.
This is what horny girls are waiting for, a guy who will take them out, help them write a good story to tell themselves and to their friends so they can have dirty sweaty incredible sex on a blanket of respectability.
Men – be the Leader
The key here is continuous compliance, tell your Tinder date to do things throughout the date; tell her to try he food because it is great – she does and loves it, then you suggest to the girl she should check out something out the window – she does and it was great, you suggest to go to this other bar – she does and it is a good place, you ask her to you her hand for ‘some reason of your choice’.
Building a chain of compliance is so effective, and it is also a good way to gauge how much she is into you, when she starts complying to everything that you are saying then you are in and she is definitely loving your masculinity.
I don’t care what year this is, equal right, girl power etc, girls want a man who is in control. You are the leader, you and going to lead her on a date, you are in charge of where to meet, where to go, if you’ll be drinking wine or cocktails, and you will also be the one who suggests to go back to your place.
This is not a trick this is just the type of behaviour that girls like to see naturally in men. This Tinder date story gives her a great date and gives you the platform to be the leader and build a chain of compliance.
Making decisions and leading the way is an attractive male trait, trying to pressure a woman to do something is being a douche-bag, so if she doesn’t want the cocktail don’t force it, she doesn’t need to be drunk to go home with you, you want to hookup and for her to tell her friends you were awesome, don’t be weird and rapey! Girls will spot that kind of thing a mile away.
Meet at a quite bar, have one drink to let her feel comfortable with you, you suggest to leave after one drink, so that she feels like you are not trying to get her tipsy trying to entice her into making bad decisions, this will lower her guard and build trust that you are a nice guy.
Walk to get some food, snack type, slice of pizza, something small and is a fast transition. For several reasons, its cheap, it is fast, you don’t get too full, you don’t have to wait uncomfortably long time to get your food and no awkward moments when getting the check. When she tells the story, you went for a drink, then went for a walk, then had some food, you have already written a great story for her so far, it is all good stuff.
Walk to the Date Spot
Take her to get another drink at another place, share a bottle of wine in a cool bar. A bottle of wine is easy to drink and sounds classy, whatever you save on not going to a restaurant you can splash out a little on a nice bottle of wine and don’t mention the price(she will notice on her own because she will be analysing you).
Once you both are at the perfect amount of tipsy drunk take her to a place where you can have some physical contact, a dancing place or a bar with loud music. If you can dance this is the time to bring it into the date, it will take your hookup probability up to 90%.
It is time to close(take her back to your house), when the bar closes, say you don’t want to go to a club, its too loud etc, tell her you have some drink back at yours, say it without hesitation.
Remember that this hookup is not going to happen on its own, it requires your consistent, fun leadership and her continuing confluence. And what you have actually done is create an awesome date story and she will be excited to hookup.
It also not just a one night strategy, sure you can hookup with the girl, but 9 times out of 10 a girl that has sex with you will want to meet again, unless you get weird or super lovey-dovey after sex.
Hookup Checklist for men
Be very comfortable in her company
Let her get comfortable with you
Don’t worry about silences, it is only awkward if you make it awkward
Always have in your mind where to go, and a back-up if one place is closed
Lead the entire date from picking the meet-up spot all the way to taking her home
Look out for signs that she is enjoying your company
Don’t react to these signs (be cool), if she is comfortable and enjoying herself keep the same vibe going.
Have drinks but not too much – it is really not required, she can always pretend to be more drunk if it makes her feel more comfortable.
Have your apartment already prepared with wine in the fridge, water, condoms, tidy room, low lit lighting and a nicely made bed.
Hold her hand towards the end of the date, crossing the street, you don’t need to explain, just take her hand.
Be a champion and take her home, happy hookup..!!
Ok now time to check out my Tinder Hacks Article
If you found the Tinder date story interesting, take a look at our Tinder Profile Tips for great info on getting more matches.
Watch this video from a ‘Pick-up artist’ on picking up women, and to hookup using a Tinder and other dating apps – Pick up artists are the biggest geeks of dating but they share some great tips and tricks, if a hookup is what your after you better start upping your Tinder and dating game because you are competing against a lot of other guys who are getting clued up.
Tinder Super like is the only feature on Tinder where you can communicate with someone before you match. There is another effective feature called tinder Boost and we explain in our article the best time to use Tinder Boost. Anyways one thing at a time lets look at Superlikes and how to use them.
Make sure you read my article on Tinder hacks the best information to get the most out of your dates
Put it on your reading list
What is Super Like and How to use it: Every user is given by default 1 Super Like per day, and when you use it on someone they will be influenced in several ways, so what happens?:
Receive a notification of being Super liked
Your profile will be one of the first tinder profiles that they will see that day
Your profile will have a little coloured star to indicate that you Super liked them
How to Super Like someone on Tinder
There are 2 ways:
Swiping up – When you are on the swiping section looking though profiles. swipe directly upward.
Hit the Blue Star – What is the blue star? – this is just the symbol for super like. This button is usually located on the bottom right of the screen, on the right of the ‘Like’ button and is fractionally smaller than the other buttons. If you have selected a profile to look through their Bio or their other pics, the Star button will still be at the bottom of the screen but change to the centre position.
Is it worth it?
What are the positives and negatives of super liking someone, lets expand on the Pros and Cons:
Your profile is Seen First – or one of the first, this is an obvious positive as there are 50 million people using tinder and in more densely populated areas it may be a long time before your profile appears in front of other users, what position you are in the profile pile is a big factor to your Tinder success.
Make them Feel Special – The person you ‘Super Liked’ then knows that you preferred them over other profiles, this suggests that the attraction you have for them is more genuine and they will feel more special. This also indicates that there will be no conversation rejection if they contact you. Especially useful for Men – there are many men who literally swipe yes to every girl on Tinder and then filter though the matches later, so therefor women like to know if your interest is genuine rather than a blind swipe yes.
Attract more Attention – Your little star on your profile tells them that you have already liked them, it brings more attention to your profile and more time will be given on your profile before swiping.
The Sure thing – I don’t know how familiar you are on attraction phycology, but when there is a ‘sure thing’ or the attraction phase was too easy then you will value that person less, this happens because you feel that the person was willing to be attracting you before you feel there has been enough time to develop a connection or display your attractive qualities. If you didn’t know that, trust me, it is true. So the negative of Super Like is that person knows you like them more than other Tinder profiles, and that you are already super attracted to them before they demonstrated value through messaging.
Limited Super Likes – You only have one per day unless you pay for Tinder Plus, with Tinder Plus you get 5/day. So you should choose wisely, there is a strategy on the effectiveness of Super Liking. It works the same as compliments, the more compliments someone receives, the less it is effective. If you imagine a girl who doesnt get compliments very often is told they look beautiful today, they will feel amazing, however if a super hot woman receives her 50th compliment of the day – she will feel nothing, infact will associate you with the rest of the douchebags that gave her compliments that day. The same goes for men, compliments work better on men because we receive them less from women.
Go and try it out, find out what works for you, try super liking profiles different levels of attractiveness. It will bring more attention to your Tinder Profile but you will still need good photos to back it up. What makes a good profile pic, we are working the article. What to show in the pic, what position, where to look, how much of your body is showing are all big factors, Try the Best Tinder Pick up Lines to cheat the system.
Super Like is effective, especially if your profile has a lot of attractive value, however it is not going to help you with the Superhot Tinder Profiles. So be selective on how you use it.
This sums up Tinder Super Likes. Happy swiping…!!!
Reddit Tinder is a forum where you can start a discussion on almost anything, it is such a great site, there has been many threads on tinder and below we have picked out the best and funniest Treads, including Tinder Tips all 100% NSFW (not safe for work).
Reddit Tinder Pickup Lines / Clever / Great / Funny Augustus – Are you a Jedi?
No why – Toller
Augustus – Cause yodalicious.
Reddit Tinder Pickup Lines / Clever / Great Heath – I guess you can call me winter.
Heath – Because you’ll always cum before me.
Well played sir, well played – Autumn
We have compiled all the best and funniest conversation openers on Tinder Pick up Lines click the image below for some lols 🙂
NSFW warning! We must issue a warning on these pickup up techniques, these are 100% NSFW, not suitable for work. So if you are instant messaging between workmates, some of these openers will definitely get you fired.
Reddit Tinder Forum
What I don’t like about Reddit is that you need to click through endlessly to find something interesting. So we can pulled all the best information onto this site.
I don’t want to read endless amounts of conversation threads on Reddit, it can get tiresome, we also found that there are some privacy issues with posting screenshots of Tinder so we decided to re-write all the good Reddit material.
We are making the final touches before releasing the site, so if you are finding your way here already then please stand by for some awesome content from Reddit Tinder, hours and hours of sifting through all the dating stories, funny chats and hookup stories. But to be honest – a lot of embarrassing chats.
The Main Highlights of Reddit Tinder NSFW
How to talk to girls
best way to start a conversation
how to hookup
Pickup lines that work – according to Reddit Tinder
How Tinder is NSFW
Humanitarians of Tinder (yes – people are talking about this stuff) Humanitarians in what way?….
hookup sites like craigslist – (Yes people used to use Craigslist before Tinder, but it does take some time for people to catch up with dating trends)
For those of you who don’t know what Reddit Tinder is then click here
We are still preparing our content, until site construction is finished please entertain your self with this video.
Using Tinder with Facebook has its problems;Some people don’t like the privacy aspect, they want all the benefits of dating but without having to show all their common connections. Some don’t like that mutual friends will be shown to your matches, as these FB friends may not give you the endorsements that would like, sometimes it is just better without. Plus none of your friends will know about your best tinder openers.
Or you don’t want mutuals friend knowing that you have been organising a date with your new match.
Whatever the reason it is nice to have a clean slate when meeting your Tinder date for the first time.
Is is possible to use tinder without Facebook?
Can you use Tinder without Facebook? In short no, however, if it is for privacy issues then there is another solution, without using your own FB account, what you can do is create a new FB account, this is super easy to do, follow these steps:
Create a new FB account
Sign into this new FB account using the FB app on your phone (do this so that you can easily switch between FB accounts if you need to sign into tinder again – sadly Tinder still logs you out occasionally)
Open Tinder, you will be prompted to ‘sign-in with Facebook’
Tinder is now active and you can upload pics from your phone
Open Facebook app, sign out of your new FB account, sign in again with your normal account – done..!
Previously you could only upload pics your Facebook account but now it has changed and you can upload any from your phone, so you can upload your favourite pics without uploading them to your fake profile first.
Hide your Facebook Friends on Tinder
How to hide your Facebook friends on Tinder: To keep your tinder private and use it without being visible to to your Facebook friends, follow these steps:
Log onto Facebook
Go to settings
Go to app visibility – change to ‘Only Me’. +
(Optional) If you want to be extra sure you can uncheck the friends box to remove access to your friends list.
Pros and cons of hiding your friends
Pros – your match will get to know you from your conversations and dates before you actually meet, instead of them FB messaging a mutual friend for any dirt on you.